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 Brothers and sisters can have stormy relationships, but can still be very close and loving throughout their lives. Here’s how to help them get along from the start.

Big brother or sister
Some older brothers and sisters react very well to the arrival of a new baby, others don’t. It’s not unusual for an older child to ‘go backwards’ for a time, lapsing into behaviours he or she had grown out of, such as thumbsucking, bed-wetting or even asking for a bottle of milk after months happily drinking out of a cup. Others go through phases of temper tantrums, or kicking and biting.

It’s normal, too, for an older child to demand attention at awkward times: wanting the potty as soon as you sit down to give a feed; demanding a story while you’re changing a nappy. It’s a way of reminding you that they’re still there, and that the baby shouldn’t take up all of the limelight!

Make time for your older children
A new baby takes a lot of your time and attention. It can help your older child enormously to be reassured that just because the new baby is here, and is obviously staying, that you don’t love them any the less. One of the key things you can do is spend time with your older child. If the baby naps, sit on the sofa with your older child and read a book instead of running around getting the laundry done.

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