Weaning - your questions answered

weaning babies

Health visitor, Sarah Giles answers your essential questions on introducing your baby to solids.

When is the best age to start weaning my baby onto food?

The World Health Organisation and Department of Health recommend exclusive breastfeeding for at least the first 6 months.

Why can’t I wean my baby before 6 months?

The 6-month guideline is based on research showing that a baby’s internal digestive system isn’t mature enough to handle food until the 6-month mark, when babies are able to digest solid food. Research shows that weaning before the digestive system is ready may increase your baby’s risk of infections and allergies.  Find out more about why six months is the best time to start weaning here.

My baby is four months old, has started waking through the night, and seems hungrier – aren’t these signs he’s ready for solids?

It’s very normal for babies aged four to five months to wake during the night and be hungrier than usual but this is usually down to a growth spurt not the need for solids. Extra breast milk will be enough to meet their needs.

What signs are there that he’s ready for solids at six months?

If your baby can sit up, wants to chew and has lost his tongue thrust reflex - where he pushes food out of his mouth automatically, he’s ready for solids. Six months is also the time when your baby needs more nutrients and extra calories to grow and breast milk and formula alone will not provide this.

How do I go about introducing solid foods to my baby?

Start by making sure your baby is sitting up in a high chair or reclining chair so they don’t risk choking. Then offer a small teaspoon (make the spoon plastic not metal) of pureed or mashed food mixed with baby’s usual milk, and do this either after a milk/breast feed, or in the middle of a feed when they are not too hungry.  Still not sure where to start? Learn how to make the perfect puree here.

Begin with one meal a day. If your baby rejects your attempts try again later but make sure you try when your baby isn’t starving. Also remember at this point food is just for taste and texture, not for nutrition. Once your baby starts to like solids you can increase the quantity and consistency so food starts to fill him up.  There's more about how to start weaning here.

What kind of foods should I give my baby?

Go with baby rice or bland mashed vegetables or fruit as these work best. Once your baby likes this kind of food try introducing a more varied diet that the rest of your family eat, though introduce one new food at a time and bear in mind most food will need to be introduced a number of times before a baby will like it.

Do I reduce milk feeds once I start weaning?

Once your baby is eating solids at least three times a day you can drop a feed, but your baby still needs about 600ml of breastfeed or formula feed a day until they are at least 12 months old.

What foods should I avoid?

If there is a history of allergies in the family you should consult a healthcare professional before introducing nuts to your child’s diet – and don’t give whole nuts until they are 5 years old

Also avoid adding salt or sugar to any foods and do not give honey until your baby is one year old as it can contain a type of bacteria that can cause illness.

It also pays to be careful about hard lumpy food. Even though by 8 – 9 months your baby will be able to handle these foods – they can still choke on raw carrot sticks, apple pieces and grapes. Also foods with skin like sausages and fish. To avoid cut food into small pieces and remove all skins.

What is baby led weaning?

This is a method where you don’t mash or puree food, but let your baby explore foods for himself by offering him a selection of finger foods such as cooked carrots, banana, breadsticks etc. Advocates say it stops babies becoming fussy eaters but it can be hard to work out how much food is actually being eaten. The NHS recommendation is to offer mashed foods as well as softish finger foods and purées. This will help your baby get used to both eating solids, and feeding herself.

 

Comments

it's all well and good for the HV to say wait until 6 months, but they aren't the ones listening to their poor LO crying because she's hungry then vomiting because her little tummy can't cope with anymore milk- a vicious cycle. we were literally counting down the days until our DD turned 4 months (what the food jars say). my HV is insisting that my husband and i have "the weaning talk", despite the fact that we have already started and that we've weaned our other 2 kids! ask your HV questions by all means. they can be a valuable source of information. but remember that very often, mum knows best.
i started weaning my girl at 15weeks.. she started waking earlier and earlier at 13 i thought id leave it a week incase it was a growth spurt then she started drinking 8oz bottles like they were going out of fashion, she slept through since 3weeks and started paying a hell of alot of attention to my and partners food and was making mouth movements by 15weeks i tried her with babyrice it seemed to make her go abit longer between feeds then on her 2nd bottle she started taking more than 3spoonfuls and started sleeping better again, she is exactly 4months old today and now im intorducing dinner as a bottle just isnt good enough sometimes she refuses her bottle untill she has had some fruit puree the little bugger but still drinks all her 8oz bottle and at our tea time she still sits there smiling making mouth movements like we do when we eat as if to say please mummy.. my mum said she is just like me when i was a baby, i prefered food to milk same as my little girl although she drinks all her bottle 1st the majority of the time health visitor wont be happy lol x
We started to wean our little girl at about 13/14 weeks. Far earlier than the minimum my health visitor advised of 17 weeks! We have not looked back since. She has her bottle in a morning when she wakes and then she has baby porridge for breakfast and dinner and a jar for tea with desert. She then has another full bottle before bed. She's 25 weeks now and loving her food. I think you just have to go with your gut instinct on weaning your baby. This is my first and I was worried about weaning but milk just wasn't filling her anymore so it seemed the logical thing to do!
Hi my baby is 17 weeks and I have started giving her baby rice every other day she doesnt always take it all but likes the first few spoon fulls. I also tried giving her a small amount of baby porridge which brought her out in a terrible rash and red face, worried sick we ended up in A+E thankfully she was fine but she isnt having it again, we are sticking to baby rice for now.
My daughter is 18 weeks; she is breastfed and very developmentally advanced, and was showing all the signs of being interested in food; she sits up with hardly any support, grabs everything and puts it into her mouth, tries to take my food from me(!). I still feed her as much milk as before so she is still getting all the milk she needs, but have started giving her babyrice once a day mixed with my milk. I always feed her before I give her the rice. She absolutely loves it, opens her mouth ready for the next bit and helps with the spoon! I plan to increase the amount of babyrice I give her until she is 6 months when I will introduce other foods.
Hi, my baby is now 21weeks and i have been told that i should leave weaning off till 6months but everytime i am eating food my daughter gets upset and so i have started to just give her a little bit of mashed carrot or potatoe and it makes her happy and stops her from crying at dinner time when were eating, so i am going to introduce foods slowly now and see how she gets on.
I think the guidelines are simply that....guidelines regarding weaning and waiting until 6 months!!!!My son was a hungry baby, knocking back 7oz of milk at 5 weeks old. We started weaning at 4 months even with his allergies and he is FAR happier, sleeps right through the night, 6.30 - 6 and took to weaning effortlessly.So much so that after 3 days he was on 2 small bowls of mush a day.I think you go with your baby, you'll know if they need more and if they do.......wean away!!
hi, can you please help me, me and my partner have been trying for a baby for about 4 months now, she was due her period at the start of this month, and has jet no period she has done a few tests which have come up negative. ive been told by other people that she is taking tests to early and it would not show for about 4 weeks, can you help me and tell me if thats true as all i want to do is help her and comfort her with out recking our relationship, thanks m
My baby is now 20 weeks (coming upto 21 weeks) its such a tricky area weaning i have found, due to differing points of view, on talking with my 'health visitor' she advised due my baby being 6 weeks prem that i could start weaning at 20 weeks, or if showing classic symptoms 17 weeks but know earlier, me and my partner deicided to hold out until as near 20 weeks as poss. just a day short of 20 weeks, on going to get him weighed i was asked how my baby was doing by the nurse, i informed her i was 2 days into weaning and she looked at me horrified procaliming he was'nt ready his weight is'nt adequate, i then let her know i was told by health visitor, she questioned me asking who it was, she totally didnt believe me, i was quite upset as i'm not trying to harm my baby, at one of my babies groups all the 'health visters' there i spoke to said it your baby do whats best, you know what he needs more than us, its very frustrating when you get mixed messages, anyway my son is only managing a few spoonfuls of baby porridge in the morning, but i'm happy and so is he...............is'nt that the main thing?
I started weening my soon at 4 months because i found that he was wanting bottle after bottle of the stage 2 milk. It just didnt seem to be filling him at all so me and my partner decided to start spoon feedingn him. We wernt to sure at first because of all the advice to wait to 6 months but we decided to give it a go anyway. he is now slightly over 5 months and loves his feeds hes now on two a day and likes most things. The little jars are great just the right amount.
 

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