Finding a nanny

Nannies look after your children in your own home and are a popular choice for parents of babies and toddlers, although they can look after children of any age.

Nannies don't have to be registered and aren't subject to legal requirements, so it's up to you as a parent to make sure you choose wisely and act responsibly as an employer.

How to find a nanny

Finding the right nanny can take time, so don't leave it until the last minute to begin your quest. Deciding exactly what you are looking for will save time and prevent disappointment later, so think about what duties you wish them to perform, likely working hours, whether they need to drive and terms and conditions of employment.

The safest route is to go through a nanny recruitment agency, which will match your family to suitable candidates, but you could also try advertising in local newspapers or notice boards in primary schools, libraries or newsagents. Don't forget to include details of hours, duties, ages of children and the area you live in, and ask candidates to send details of their age, experience, qualifications and employment history.

What to ask a nanny

Handing care of your little one to a stranger is never easy, so think carefully about what you want from a nanny and the kind of questions you need to ask. Here are a few suggestions:

  • What are your qualifications and experience?
  • What age of children are you used to working with?
  • What is it you enjoy most about being a nanny?
  • How would you discipline my child?
  • What would you do if you had concerns about anything?
  • How have you resolved difficulties with parents or children in the past?
  • How would you spend the day with my child?
  • Why did you leave your last job?

Remember that interviews work both ways - ask the nanny if she has any questions for you, and give her time to talk to your previous nanny, or provide references if it's the first time you have hired someone.

And of course, don't forget the most important person of all! Introduce your child and watch closely to see how they get along. A nanny might look great on paper and be dazzling at interview, but if they just don't 'click,' it's back to the drawing board.

Nanny pros and cons

Pros

  • One to one care in your own home
  • Flexibility in working hours
  • You don't have to get your baby up, dressed, fed and out in the mornings
  • Nannies may also do some shopping and cleaning
  • Your baby won't have a new environment to get used to

Cons

  • Nannies are not registered
  • May not have childcare qualifications
  • Your child may not meet as many other children
  • It's a relatively expensive option

For more information on finding and hiring a nanny, go to directgov.uk

 
 

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