All children have moments when they lash out in anger by swearing, shouting, throwing or kicking objects.

There are times when the aggression they show can seem particularly frightening and out of control, whether it’s to parents, other family members or outside the home.

Parents often feel helpless and in despair about their children’s behaviour. They may think it’s their fault that their children act in this way. However, the pressures that might have led to a child feeling angry and distressed could be out of a parent’s hands and they shouldn’t feel guilty or to blame.

Information and support

Parentline Plus has contact information for various groups and workshops where you can share your experiences with other parents, and get some fresh ideas on how to help you and your children make the most of life.

Also, check out the Bounty guides to:

Discipline and your 3-5 year old

The art of reason: discipline and your growing child

Expert advice from child psychologist Dr Angharad Rudkin

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