How to write a birth plan

How to write a birth plan

Writing a birth plan

Birth plans are a way of letting everyone involved in your care during labour know:

  1. The things that are important to you.
  2. What your priorities are.
  3. How you would like to be cared for.

Before you start:

  1. Gather all the information you need – from your midwife, antenatal classes, other women, Bounty.com...
  2. Talk to your labour partner about his or her ideas on the best ways to approach the labour and birth. 
  3. Read your hospital’s leaflets to find out what’s on offer.

Labour

  1. Choice of birth companion - say who you want to be with you; will they stay all the time or leave for certain procedures? 
  2. Choice of carers - is it important to you to have only female staff caring for you during labour? Do you need an interpreter or someone to sign for you? 
  3. Comfort - say if you want to move around during labour. Do you want beanbags and floor cushions in the delivery room? Do you want to use a birthing pool for pain relief? 
  4. Special needs - if you have a disability, write down what kind of equipment you will need and how the staff can help you. If you have particular religious or cultural needs, write these down. 
  5. Coping with pain – find out more about pain relief here.
  6. Interventions - this is the point to think about episiotomy – the cut that may be made to enlarge the birth outlet, assisted deliveries, and caesarean sections.

After the birth

  1. Baby - would you prefer your baby to be dried before being handed to you? Or do you want your baby to be placed immediately in your arms?
  2. Brothers and sisters - do you want them to come into the delivery room to see the baby straight away? 
  3. Feeding - do you want to breastfeed your baby and not want him given any formula feeds? Do remember, once you begin formula feeding it is possible, but may be difficult, to reverse your decision and begin breastfeeding. 
  4. Your diet - do you need a special diet on the postnatal ward?

Bounty Organiser

You can keep track of your pregnancy milestones with our free online calendar. It lets you enter your baby’s due date which automatically populates the calendar with need-to-know dates such as when to give your MAT B1 form to your employer, the earliest date you can start maternity leave, and when to apply for free prescriptions and dental treatment, the Health in Pregnancy Grant and Child Benefit. You can add in your midwife appointments, scan dates and antenatal classes and select to receive email reminders for them a month, a week or a day before. Plus, print off our useful checklists which cover everything from what to pack in your hospital bag to breastfeeding essentials.

Comments

Hello i am 25 weeks pregnant and so confused. some people tell me not to write a birth plan and some have said write one. if i write one but go into labour and want things that aint on my birthplan will it be ok.
Im 27 weeks with my 3rd baby, i never had a birth plan with my 1st as i didnt knwo what to expect, with my 2nd it was more of a wish list of "likes" rather than must haves, such as i would like to see the sex ofmy baby myself rather than been told, im writing my birth plan for this one now and have included both instructinal requests such as no epidural along with personal requests such as my boyfriend to cut the cord. its my labour so i want it how we want it and you have to voice your wants to get the best experience but i do have a very open mind as anything can happen, iv found this really helpful to add extras in to my plan.
Hi all! I'm 27 wks and have decided not to do a birthing plan. This is my first and have heard so many stories decided against planning the birth as you just never know what's going to happen. I'm very open minded apart from a vontuse being used. That I will refuse as don't believe in them as know they pull skin on baby's head and can cause damage, again have heard few horror stories so will refuse that, but everything else I'm very open minded about.
so glad i found this link as im new to all this and feel so silly not knowing ...
i was so scared and was thinking dont have a clue what the birth plan is but now this link made me feel so relaxed hopefully now i know what to write in birth plan thanks
At what point do you start writing a plan? Im 27 weeks and abit confused by it all if im honest lol x
this link has just made my life so much easier i didnt really know what to write, but now thanks to this link i have a plan !! well on going !! x
Hi Cariaan glad the link will be helpful :) i would say just go in with an open mind, i didnt have a clue what to expect with my first but luckily everything went as well as it could so i am hoping fingers crossed this time won't be too bad! I have also been watching one born every minute religiously just to prepare my self for a number of situations that may arise! good luck with the birth plan xxx
Hello mum's and bumps, just looked at that link and think its really useful, going to show my husband when he is home. We havnt written a birth paln yet but its our next job. Its our first child and not sure what to expect really, my friend has given me lots of great relaxation CD's which ive been listening to and will probably use in labour. Got most things sorted i think but just need to sort out the hospital bag etc.
Hello all mummies to be! I am 27 weeks today with my second little girl, feel a little nervous and anxious as ! know what to expect this time around (was completly oblivious on my first!) although its been nearly 6 years since my first. For all those of you wanting to write a birth plan and not sure where to start... i have found a wonderful link on the NHS website http://www.nhs.uk/planners/pregnancycareplanner/pages/birthplan.aspx?WT.... where it is easy to create a plan from a template and even gives you choices to pick and if you create an account you can log in and update it and save it anytime! hope this helps :) I have done mine, just may need to tweak a few things i am feeling very organised this time around and have most things now mainly apart from my pram! and will start packing my hospital bag in a few weeks xxx
hey ladies n bumps, im 27 weeks pregnant. nearly have everything sorted now just a few more things to get, seems never ending doesnt it? just need to get the things for my hosptial bags and a house of course but think got everything else. not got a birth plan just going to see what happens on the day think it best to go open minded but i know what is available to me. x
Hi Mummies I'm 27 weeks with my second. Albeit nearly 7 years since I had my first, there are a few useful hints I can give you first time Mums. With regards to Antenatal Classes, go along if you can. If nothing else, you can make some good friends with people in similar situations. With regards to Birth Plans, I think the most important thing is to be as open minded as possible and keep in mind the whole time you are writing it that your baby comes 1st. I naively believed I was going to be able to breath my way through labour but ended up doing the whole sh-bang - gas/air, pethadine, epidural and emergency c-section. However, think about those little things about who cuts the cord - do you want to feel baby's head as it comes out - do you want to hold baby straight away or rather have it quickly checked over first before you hold it. The one thing I will say is, albeit the most amazing experience in the world, your birthing plan is there for general guidance, not for rigid adherence. Good luck ladies x
Hi all mums-to-be, I'm 27 weeks pregnant and just got a new house. Not even started a birth plan or anything else yet but signed up for antenatal classes hich I'm quite excited about! My first child which I never thought i'd be able to have. I've got a checklist and done the research so I can start buying things as soon as we've moved in. Hopefully soon :)
im 25 weeks today and this is my first.. I have no birth plan and still need to finish my hospital bag. I have no idea where to start or what I need.. My mum I'snt really being to helpful at the moment.. Still thinking about weither I should go to antinatal classes. So many people say they just scare you and don't actually help but I guess I am going to have to find out for myself. Anyone know anything that can help me?? Good luck all mummies to be :)
Hi, I'm a first time mum & i am 27wks. I been looking into labour & birth plans today but I dont know where to start with my birth plan. Im a bit scared that i might miss something out. Anyone got any advise?
Hi, I'm a first time mum & i am 27wks. I been looking into labour & birth plans today but I dont know where to start with my birth plan. Im a bit scared that i might miss something out. Anyone got any advise?
27 wks today still trying to gather info, services are so tight and resources of info are shrinking. Gutted I can't have a tour of new beginnings low risk delivery suite - always very anxious regarding hospitals just wanted to check it out with my husband to put mind at rest instead we get told you can only do an online tour these days - cutbacks!!! I love being pregnant, this my first and we never thought we would have this opportunity - just a shame midwives have so little time, such large case loads and NHS has had such cuts - have felt like a sausage in a factory just being moved on through the sectors. Was hoping for some care and understanding regarding anxities.
I will be 38 weeks pregnant on Monday. Very nervous and no birth plan!!
34 weeks and birth plan is done and bag done
Yeah,I will love to be a part of it.
I'm currently 26 weeks, getting anxious now! No birth plan done, need more bits and haven't locked down some names yet! Help! This isn't a good start is it?
i am 28 weeks tomorrow it is my first baby and i am so scared i anit even thought about planing my birth
i have a girl about 3 years old and now i'm expecting another one .actually for first one i wasn't thinking about labour but now i'm so afraid and so stress .i don't even know what i need.
wishing all mum to be the best of the season
Thanks for the help, wrote birth plan using bullet points above...keeping a very open mind thou!
as a first time mum i spent time writting up my birth plan, but it stayed in my hospital bag lol. my labour was quite quick and didn't stick to my birth plan but had a great birth, best advice i can give is just go with the flow, good luck ladies xx
Well there is a lot to think about. This is my first time, and it makes my head spin a little. Think I'll need to do a lot more research in order to put my birth plan together. Scared, but so excited!!
I am a first time mum to be , im very scared about all this and i dont really know what to do.
Got 2 children, one v birth. one c section. still nervous about 3rd time round, which is it gonna b? vagina,or c section
GOOD LUCK to all mum to be. God bless
had my son nearly 3years ago... then i knew what i needed in my birthplan and my hospital bag... now... i dont have a clue lol! xx
thanks a bunch for the info, sadly, a few of the items do not apply in my country so i'll just work with the ones that do...
i agree with dizzymoo2003, im 31 week pregnant and im going with the flow too lol, think if i had a plan and it didnt work out it would just stress me out even more, lol
Thanks for the birth plan info -very useful
my birth plan was i'll go with the flow, lol. and i only had gas and air on both my ds's! with ds1 i was in labour for 3 1/2 hours and ds2 was home birth and in labour for 4 hours. i put that down to not having a plan, if it didnt go the way i wanted i would of got upset and i believe not so quick labours.
Good advice and good luck to all. This is my 3rd one due 6th August but hoping it to be sooner than that!!!
Good outline advice for how to get organised thanks :) Good luck everyone x
luv it thanx
it's such a shame that people are led to believe that birth is a complicated process... we have been doing this for milennia; since time began. IF our heads (and the medical profession!) can leave us alone for long enough, our bodies know what to do... What we really need to do is come back to trusting our own innate ability to birth. I HIGHLY recommend reading a lovely book called the Continuum Concept...
god , after reading this i am feeling a little scared... lol. i havent been too bad but now i have to think about labour etc theres so much to think about!! youdont realise it!! good luck to all expantant mums! xx
Is there a specific note book to write a birth plan in? Thanx.
very usefull information...
Very essential information and has got me thinkin serious about the big day
thats great thanx.. exiting stuff x
Thank you!Very usefull
very usefull to me x