Childcare: more information to help you choose

You might have been counting down the days to get back into work mode—or dreading the thought of it. Whatever your feelings, it’s natural to feel a knot in your stomach when you think about leaving your little one in someone else’s care.

The good news is that with a bit of preparation and by choosing the childcare option that works best for your family, the transition can be much smoother. Before long, your baby will be enjoying themselves in a new and stimulating environment.

Here’s a look at the main childcare options, plus some tips to help your little one settle in, wherever you decide.

Nanny

• This is usually the most expensive option, unless you share with another family.
• As their employer, you’ll be responsible for tax and National Insurance, but the benefits can be huge.
• A nanny offers one-to-one care (ideal for babies under 12 months), often in your own home, with hours that suit your family.
• They’ll also take on baby-related chores like washing, ironing and cooking (sadly not yours!).

Need to know: Nannies aren’t regulated by an official body, but reputable agencies carry out thorough checks. Always follow up on references—it’s expected.

Day nursery

Next down in cost, nurseries provide structured care, activities like painting and crafts, and lots of social interaction.

• They’re open year-round and don’t rely on just one person.
• Downsides? Less one-to-one attention, possible staff turnover, strict late pick-up fees, and plenty of germs flying around. Busy, noisy settings may also be overwhelming for quieter babies.

Need to know: Nurseries often have waiting lists—register early. Visit a few, ask about staff turnover, and check what’s provided for babies, especially sleep areas.

Childminder

Often the best value, childminders provide a cosy, home-from-home environment and strong bonding opportunities.

• Many become long-term carers, looking after children right through primary school.
• The downside is that if they’re ill or on holiday, you’ll need back-up care.

Need to know: In England, childminders are registered with Ofsted—check ratings online. Councils keep vacancy lists. Visit several, ask about group sizes, and check if they take the children out to playgroups. A shared outlook makes the relationship work best.

Grandparents

Potentially the cheapest option—and who loves your baby more? But it can be tricky. What if they encourage long naps that disrupt night-time sleep? What if their holidays clash with your work schedule? Without clear agreements, it can get complicated.

Helping your baby settle

• When you’ve chosen your childcare and the big day is approaching, keep things positive—babies quickly pick up on your feelings.
• Don’t feel guilty—this independence is healthy for them
• Visit the carer a few times before starting
• Ask their advice on settling in—many suggest a short trial day

Saying goodbye

This can be tough. Younger babies may breeze through, while older ones (especially 8–12 months) can find it harder due to separation anxiety. The best approach is to say a bright, firm goodbye, give them a cuddle, and go. Avoid sneaking out—it can make things worse long-term.

Trust your childcare provider—they’re experienced at settling babies. It might feel hard at first, but it usually gets easier quickly. In fact, chances are your baby will be playing happily by the time you’ve reached the end of the road.