The 5 Questions Every Pregnant Woman Should Ask Her Partner

You’ve read the books, packed the hospital bag, and maybe even completed a hypnobirthing course, but how ready is your partner?

It’s easy to assume they’ll just “figure it out” when the time comes. But the reality is, many dads-to-be feel overwhelmed, unsure, and underprepared. And when they aren’t ready, you can end up feeling unsupported at a time when you need them most.

Fatherhood is simply too important to just wing.

So, before the big day arrives, here are five important questions every mum-to-be should ask her partner:

1. Do you know our birth plan?

Let’s shift the mindset! It’s not just my birth plan, it’s ours. Being on the same page now helps ensure you're supported when it matters most.

2. Would you know what to do if we have complications during labour?

Labour doesn’t always follow the script. If quick decisions need to be made, will he feel confident advocating for you and your baby?

3. Can you change a nappy…or calm our baby when they won’t stop crying?

These early parenting skills aren’t just for mums. Being hands-on from the start helps dads bond with their baby and gives you the rest and recovery you deserve.

4. I’m counting on you - pre, during, and after birth. What does that support look like to you?

The postpartum period can be raw and overwhelming. Is he ready to spot signs of emotional strain in both of you, and step in when it’s needed?

5. Are you ready to step up and be the best dad you can be?

Because fatherhood isn’t just about being present. It’s about being proactive, informed, and emotionally available. Mum and baby deserve nothing less. She’s counting on you.

If these questions feel difficult or reveal some knowledge gaps, don’t worry. That’s exactly why MANtenatal exists.

Created specifically for dads-to-be, MANtenatal is a multi award-winning, 5-star rated digital antenatal course, trusted by thousands of men - as well as midwives, doulas, and healthcare professionals around the world.

Designed to prepare men and birth partners for pregnancy, birth, and fatherhood in a way that truly speaks to them, the course is honest, practical, and relatable. MANtenatal equips dads with the tools they need to step up with confidence - for you, and for your baby.

Plus, every course includes access to a free app and a global community of dads on Discord, so no one has to go through it alone.

This is real support. Real talk. This is fatherhood - done differently.

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