Toilet Training - Your Most Asked Questions
Potty training is a big milestone and can feel daunting. Our experts answer parents’ most common questions, offering practical tips and guidance to support you and your child through this important stage of independence.
What age should I start?
Every child is different. While some show readiness later, it’s best for children’s bladder and bowel health to be out of nappies between 18–30 months. With gentle support, most children can learn to use the potty or toilet even before clear readiness signs appear.
Pants or pull-ups?
Either works! Pull-ups can help your child manage clothing before fully toilet training, but some children may find them confusing. Many parents prefer going straight to pants or knickers.
Potty or toilet?
Child-sized toilets or a potty both work. If your child is nervous about the “big” toilet, provide a step and talk through the sounds. Potties can also be useful on trips out.
Accidents happen
All children have accidents—it’s part of learning. Stay calm, reassure your child, and dress them in easy-to-manage clothing. Planning ahead for outings or nursery helps minimise stress.
Motivation and praise
Praise is more effective than rewards. Be specific: “Well done for pulling down your pants yourself!” Sticker charts can help, but avoid using food as a treat.
Night-time training
Day and night training are separate. Encourage a potty visit before bed, limit drinks an hour before sleep, and keep a consistent routine.
Special needs support
Children with SEN may need visuals, consistent phrases, social stories, and sensory considerations. Work closely with your child’s key person and any professionals involved.
Returning to nursery or regression
Sometimes children take a step back. Stay calm, consider any changes at home or nursery, and continue with a consistent approach.
Need more help?
Your child’s key person is always happy to support you. For further advice or questions, email Bee.Curious@busybees.com